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April 2021 Diversity Month General Zoom Link - Shared screen with speaker view
Flavio Medina-Martin (He/Him/His/El)
24:50
Welcome everyone... We will get started in a bit.
Priscilla Benites
26:15
Trigger warning: This presentation and discussion may contain triggering and/or sensitive material. Sexual violence, sexual assault and abuse are some topics mentioned in this event. If you feel triggered, please feel free to take a break or step away from the presentation. Please know that we will be providing resources to support you in the chat.
Joanna Kelly
26:22
We understand the topic of sexual assault and domestic violence is very sensitive.If you have a need to reach out for help for you or someone you know, you can reach out to:• The Domestic Violence Program at Child & Family Center 661-259-8175• Strengths United (for Sexual Assault) 818-886-0453• National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-656-4673• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233)o 800-787-3224 (TTY)• Crisis Text Line 714714• National Suicide Lifeline 800-273-TALK (8255)o 800-799-4889 (TTY)
Lynn Huh
38:17
Great video
Joanna Kelly
41:14
We understand the topic of sexual assault and domestic violence is very sensitive. If you have a need to reach out for help for you or someone you know, you can reach out to: • The Domestic Violence Program at Child & Family Center 661-259-8175 • Strengths United (for Sexual Assault) 818-886-0453 • National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-656-4673 • National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233) o 800-787-3224 (TTY) • Crisis Text Line 714714 • National Suicide Lifeline 800-273-TALK (8255) o 800-799-4889 (TTY)• StudentHealthCenter@Canyons.edu
Joanna Kelly
44:19
Communication is so important.
Pamela Williams-Páez [she/her/hers/ella]
46:20
In Oklahoma they don’t consider oral sex as rape if the person is sleeping due to drugs or alcohol. :\ https://www.theguardian.com/society/2016/apr/27/oral-sex-rape-ruling-tulsa-oklahoma-alcohol-consent
Pamela Williams-Páez [she/her/hers/ella]
46:34
Draconian and victim blaming to the max.
Lynn Huh
46:53
That's awful...
Catherine Parker
48:09
Barbaric
Angeli Francois (she/her)
48:10
@Pamela I think that's a big "college" state
Angeli Francois (she/her)
48:40
Where sports dominate over everything
Angeli Francois (she/her)
48:48
it's terrible
Lynn Huh
52:59
I remember the movie "He's Just Not That Into You" where one of the intro scenes a little girl is told by her mom that a boy is being mean to her because he actually likes her
Catherine Parker
53:21
I forgot about that Lynn
Joanna Kelly
53:46
Yes, I distinctly remember that and people telling me that growing up
Pamela Williams-Páez [she/her/hers/ella]
54:20
We are steeped in a culture of toxic and hegemonic masculinity.
Lynn Huh
54:21
Those normalized sayings are so harmful because it affects how we view what's okay and what's not. From an early age, we learn to let go of people being mean... because it's apparently a sign that they like us. How confusing is that?!
Pamela Williams-Páez [she/her/hers/ella]
57:27
Women are internalizing too.
Angeli Francois (she/her)
58:51
@Catherine yes those toxic words " Did I Let myself.."
Catherine Parker
59:16
Yup Angeli!
Joanna Kelly
59:33
it is almost ingrained in us to always be vigilant
Catherine Parker
59:39
Yup
Angeli Francois (she/her)
01:00:04
@Priscilla those fears we hold literally make us sick and so unhealthy too Thank you for mentioning that
Joanna Kelly
01:01:12
there is definitely a stigma with men speaking up when they experience this
Pamela Williams-Páez [she/her/hers/ella]
01:01:19
I’ve heard 1:5 men are assaulted. And then there’s the problem of under-reporting because of… toxic masculinity.
Tammie Decker
01:06:11
Brock Turner raped a unconscious woman behind a trash bin and the media and others talked about how sending him to trial/jail would destroy his future. It's maddening that that sort of conversation takes place. F&*k his future.
Julianna Barnes
01:06:36
I think people often see a person expressing their sexuality, as an excuse or invitation to sexual objectify them
Joanna Kelly
01:07:43
I know multiple friends who wore wedding rings to prevent that from happening but sometimes that didn't work.
Catherine Parker
01:08:15
That's disgusting Tammie!
Catherine Parker
01:08:24
I agree Julianna
Lynn Huh
01:08:43
@Tammie - It was infuriating when news headlines would say "Brock Turner star athlete" to somehow make him look like a better person... UGH
Joanna Kelly
01:09:31
@Tammie-I think that judge eventually was recalled. It was just a horrible case.
Catherine Parker
01:10:44
Thank you Pamella!
Flavio Medina-Martin (He/Him/His/El)
01:11:29
Thank you for your voice in this discussion Professor Williams-Paez! :)
Catherine Parker
01:15:22
College professors can be perpetrators
Flavio Medina-Martin (He/Him/His/El)
01:15:33
For our Part II of the Sexual Assault Month Series session, please join us on Tuesday, April 27 from 11:30 to 12:30; We will discuss themes and impact of films such as “Audrey and Daisy”, “The Hunting Ground” and “Athlete A”. Please share with others...
Pamela Williams-Páez [she/her/hers/ella]
01:15:39
@Catherine ^^^^ Absolutely.
Joanna Kelly
01:18:19
We understand the topic of sexual assault and domestic violence is very sensitive. If you have a need to reach out for help for you or someone you know, you can reach out to: • The Domestic Violence Program at Child & Family Center 661-259-8175 • Strengths United (for Sexual Assault) 818-886-0453 • National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-656-4673 • National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233) o 800-787-3224 (TTY) • Crisis Text Line 714714 • National Suicide Lifeline 800-273-TALK (8255) o 800-799-4889 (TTY)• StudentHealthCenter@Canyons.edu
Angeli Francois (she/her)
01:18:46
I put this in my syllabus
Pamela Williams-Páez [she/her/hers/ella]
01:18:47
Thanks all. Y’all are superstars.
Angeli Francois (she/her)
01:19:04
Thank you Joanna
Joanna Kelly
01:19:45
Thank you @Angeli
Larry Schallert
01:22:41
canyons.edu/wellness for info on how best to respond to a student who is reporting sexual assault on campus
Tammie Decker
01:23:02
Thank you all.
Abby Charles
01:23:03
Thank you everyone! Great job Priscilla :)