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Flavio Medina-Martin (He/Him/His/El)'s Personal Meeting Room - Shared screen with speaker view
Yarely Gonzalez
29:20
Hi everyone! 😊
Joanna Kelly
29:32
Hi!
Ciara Asberry
29:53
Hey Yarely, so glad your here!☺️
Brandon Ashford
32:39
I've never heard that song.
Brandon Ashford
32:43
I love it!
Yarely Gonzalez
32:55
Such a powerful song!
Brandon Ashford
33:44
I'm adding it to my playlist
Joanna Kelly
34:17
This session may include media and discussion around topics such as consent, sexual assault, intimate partner violence, and power control. We understand these topics are very sensitive and may be emotionally upsetting.If you have a need to reach out for help for you or someone you know, you can reach out to:• The Domestic Violence Program at Child & Family Center 661-259-8175• Strengths United (for Sexual Assault) 818-886-0453• COC Student Health and Wellness Centero Valencia Campus Hours (Student Center-Room 122): Mon, Wed, Thur: 9am-6pm, Tues.: 9am-7pm & Fri 9am-1pm Phone: 661-362-3259o Canyon Country Campus (Quad 1B-Room 109): Mon-Thur: 9am-3pm Phone: 661-362-3812o Email: studenthealthcenter@canyons.eduo Website: www.canyons.edu/health• LGBTQIA Resource-https://fenwayhealth.org/ustoo/• National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-656-4673• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233)o 800-787-3224 (TTY)• Crisis Text Line 714714
Joanna Kelly
34:30
• National Suicide Lifeline 800-273-TALK (8255)o 800-799-4889 (TTY)
Brandon Ashford
40:44
AMEN to that!!!
Leah Parker
46:04
I would ask them individually what they would prefer. it might be nice to have them involved if they would like to be.
Leah Parker
46:37
Sorry, everyone.. please disregard that message
Erica Hernandez
01:04:03
We can also link survivors/victims with Victims of Crime.
Ciara Asberry
01:10:45
I love that video!
Erica Hernandez
01:14:18
Can this video be found on YouTube? If so, can you please share the link.
Flavio Medina-Martin (He/Him/His/El)
01:14:51
Here is the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6ENEZtqyQ0
Flavio Medina-Martin (He/Him/His/El)
01:15:03
We titled it "Leah's Powerful Video"
Ciara Asberry
01:18:07
Please feel free to also use the private chat feature if you wish.
Mary Manuel
01:18:21
Agree @ Priscilla = regarding men as victims as wel
Brandon Ashford
01:18:25
I was struck by the line " we're you rape raped or just roughed up during sex"
Ciara Asberry
01:18:40
@Mary I agree
Brandon Ashford
01:18:46
Like what?!?
Erica Hernandez
01:19:33
Unfortunately, this is why a lot of survivors choose to stay quiet. The humility behind speaking up can be extremely shaming.
Mary Manuel
01:21:46
Agree @ Erica, fear of retaliation is another reason survivors remain quiet.
Ciara Asberry
01:28:41
This is so true, I never thought about it like that.
Erica Hernandez
01:29:10
Domestic violence is a learned behavior
Ara Norwood
01:29:56
And let’s remember that the person wasn’t impaired just prior to taking that first drink or that first hit on a bong.
Ciara Asberry
01:35:20
What happens in the event where an individual says yes at first and then later says no?
Ara Norwood
01:35:41
Great question, Ciara!
Mary Manuel
01:36:14
No means No
Sierra Potter
01:36:15
I think that is the importance of getting consent every step of the way.
Joanna Kelly
01:37:01
Just started watching it!
Brandon Ashford
01:37:21
I saw that on Netflix the other day. I'm going to watch it now.
Mary Manuel
01:37:39
Agree @ Priscilla - watching now.
Joanna Kelly
01:38:00
Also, he is a powerful member in Parliament
Ciara Asberry
01:38:35
@Joanna it’s so crazy how factors like that play a part
Joanna Kelly
01:39:03
^^
Brandon Ashford
01:40:12
Wow! thanks for sharing that Ara.
Joanna Kelly
01:40:40
Yes, thank you Ara. Great question and sharing that difficult experience.
Shirley LaBrie (she/her/hers)
01:41:02
That’s why it’s always good to check in with your partner and respecting each other’s boundaries
Leah Parker
01:41:52
So good, SHirley!!
Ciara Asberry
01:45:17
@Ara, I think there are other factors that also may play a part. Maybe the individual showed gestures that expressed they were uncomfortable or they wanted to stop and they felt that was enough for the actions to stop.
Ara Norwood
01:47:03
@Ciara, I concur with what you have said. That is certainly one scenario that is very plausible and perhaps even common. My scenario was about the possibility that someone may have given no signals of negativity or hesitation, and then “came to her senses” the next day and felt real regret.
Brandon Ashford
01:51:19
That conversation after the act of intercourse is crucial!!
Ciara Asberry
01:52:14
@Brandon I think this is so true. I think it also shows accountability, love and respect.
Ciara Asberry
01:54:06
@Leah are there any resources that show terminology that can be used if the abuser is present and an individual needs help
Joanna Kelly
01:58:19
This session may include media and discussion around topics such as consent, sexual assault, intimate partner violence, and power control. We understand these topics are very sensitive and may be emotionally upsetting.If you have a need to reach out for help for you or someone you know, you can reach out to:• The Domestic Violence Program at Child & Family Center 661-259-8175• Strengths United (for Sexual Assault) 818-886-0453• COC Student Health and Wellness Centero Valencia Campus Hours (Student Center-Room 122): Mon, Wed, Thur: 9am-6pm, Tues.: 9am-7pm & Fri 9am-1pm Phone: 661-362-3259o Canyon Country Campus (Quad 1B-Room 109): Mon-Thur: 9am-3pm Phone: 661-362-3812o Email: studenthealthcenter@canyons.eduo Website: www.canyons.edu/health• LGBTQIA Resource-https://fenwayhealth.org/ustoo/• National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-656-4673• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233)o 800-787-3224 (TTY)• Crisis Text Line 714714
Joanna Kelly
01:58:38
• National Suicide Lifeline 800-273-TALK (8255)o 800-799-4889 (TTY)
Ara Norwood
01:58:51
Sex is one of the most intimate acts two people can experience. It should not be treated lightly or casually.
Joanna Kelly
01:59:01
^^
Brandon Ashford
01:59:08
Agreed!!!
Flavio Medina-Martin (He/Him/His/El)
01:59:13
Excellent point Ara!
Priscilla Benites
01:59:25
Agreed!!
Joanna Kelly
01:59:42
Also, if you are a survivor healing is possible!
Priscilla Benites
02:00:35
@ Joanna Very true!
Mary Manuel
02:00:53
Agree@Ara/Joanna
Lisette Godinez
02:02:07
Thank you! I learned so much!
Ciara Asberry
02:02:16
Thank you all for coming!!
Leah Parker
02:02:18
Thank you everyone!
Sierra Potter
02:02:34
Love these conversation! thank you everyone
Jenny Wong-Foster
02:02:44
Thank you!
Joanna Kelly
02:03:34
Thank you!
Shirley LaBrie (she/her/hers)
02:03:49
Thank you for the great conversations everyone! I have to run but I’m looking forward to the May event!
Erica Hernandez
02:03:57
Thank you all!!
Joanna Kelly
02:04:23
I have to go too, but great session!
Brandon Ashford
02:05:48
This girl can sang!!
Ciara Asberry
02:05:59
@Brandon right!